How do you raise your children differently than you were raised? For trauma therapist Kobe and her husband Kyle, this question isn't just about breaking cycles. It's about healing generational trauma, too. In this episode, Dr. Becky talks with the couple about their gentle parenting journey—and the important questions they've raised along the way about how this approach applies to their Black children. Their conversation often asks more than it answers, encouraging all of us to reflect on race, cycle breaking, and the generational influence of our parenting choices today.<p/> <p/> Join Good Inside Membership: http://www.goodinside.com <p/> Follow Dr. Becky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbeckyatgoodinside <p/> Sign up for our weekly email, Good Insider: https://www.goodinside.com/newsletter <p/> <p/> Dr. Becky's upcoming book, Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be is the parenting manual we've always wanted - the one you can read just a few pages of at a time, the one you can reference when you're in a tricky stage, the one that will make you feel equipped and hopeful.<p/> <p/> Pre-order your copy now at goodinside.com/book or wherever you order your books.